Description
This episode with Nilguin van Raad is one of my favourites.
Be sure to check it out and let me know what you think
A few quotes that stuck with me:
- With pure intentions and zero judgement you can say anything
- If things need to be said or done, you need to say or do them
- Building a relationship can take time, but it can also be done in an instant
- People act like the people around them
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Guest
Connect with Nilguin van Raad:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/nilguin-van-raad
References
- Rose of Leary
- Getting out of the Box – The Arbinger Institute
- Cross the line
- The Trust Equation
Outline
00:00:00 – Intro00:00:26 – First impressions
00:02:40 – Observe what happens
00:03:30 – Analysing root causes
00:05:53 – Trusting your intuition
00:08:32 – Pure intentions
00:09:12 – Leadership and feedback
00:11:12 – Moving without boundaries
00:13:06 – Difficult conversations
00:14:20 – Rose of Leary
00:16:23 – Building relationships in an instant
00:18:58 – Conversation mismatch
00:21:30 – Choosing how to deal with life
00:24:40 – People that are grounded
00:25:51 – Patrick's hardships
00:28:34 – People act like the people around them
00:30:03 – Organisational systems and patterns
00:32:39 – Systemic change and cross the line
00:35:25 – Inclusion and forming a team
00:36:22 – Nilguin's experience with interventions
00:39:47 – The trust equation
00:41:28 – Leadership teams vs. leadership groups
00:44:36 – Goals derive from the strategy
00:46:49 – Rounding off – check out Nilguin van Raad